
"There is truly nothing that can prepare you for being a mother."
"I just need to scream into the void for a second,"
"I am 10 months postpartum as a first time mom, I have no idea who the hell I am anymore, our finances are a fucking wreck, my husband and I are two ships in the night who fight more than we connect...I feel so completely alone, and there are days I just feel like everybody and everything would be better if I was not here. Everything feels 1 million times harder than it should be and every day just feels like I am fighting to stay above water."
"Please know that I love you just for being here. It's hard as hell, and it can feel like everyone kept the dark bad things secret and told you it's all sunshine"
New motherhood often brings profound physical and emotional upheaval, including sleep deprivation, hormonal shifts, loss of identity, and reduced ability to manage everyday tasks. Early postpartum weeks can feel interminable and isolating, with constant feeding demands and severe fatigue. Postpartum depression can produce thoughts of hopelessness and belief that others would be better off without the mother. Financial instability and marital disconnection can intensify stress and loneliness. Rapid responses from other mothers online can deliver empathy, validation, practical advice, and a vital sense of community during moments of crisis.
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