The article discusses the crucial difference between purpose and meaning. While purpose is oriented towards future actions that energize us, meaning relates to how we perceive our past. Often, individuals confront this meaning problem rooted in childhood trauma, even if they perceive their past as normal or good. The stories of Lila, who achieved professional success despite her traumatic past, and David, who worked hard to overcome feelings of inadequacy, illustrate that unresolved past traumas can hinder emotional fulfillment and happiness. The article emphasizes the importance of addressing both major and minor trauma to find true contentment and purpose.
David's childhood, marked by neglect rather than outright trauma, shaped his relentless drive for success. He felt he had to prove his worth through work, erasing his feelings of unworthiness.
Our past stories may not seem traumatic but they can still evoke wounds. Recognizing these subtler forms of trauma is crucial for healing and achieving genuine fulfillment.
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