The letter writer feels frustrated because, each year, her son’s birthday party also becomes a celebration for his cousin, who is not present for the family gatherings. Despite previous attempts to combine parties and propose a shared cost arrangement, her brother and sister-in-law do not contribute, leading to feelings of being used. The advice provided suggests that the writer should openly communicate her feelings to her brother and sister-in-law and seek a fair solution for future celebrations, while also addressing any interference from her mother.
It's important to communicate your feelings about your son's birthday party and the shared celebrations with your brother's family, advocating for a separate event.
You can revisit the idea of splitting costs or responsibilities for the party, ensuring that both families contribute fairly to avoid such frustrations.
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