In a letter to Abby, a mother struggles with how to respond to inquiries about her estranged daughter while feeling embarrassed by the situation. She finds that saying she doesn't have children prevents further questions but feels dishonest. Abby advises her to be honest, stating, "I have one daughter. We are estranged, and I don't wish to discuss it further," helping to establish boundaries. Another letter discusses a discomfort with a boyfriend's bed and couch, suggesting honesty is the best approach to address needs without personal offense.
"I have one daughter. We are estranged, and I don't wish to discuss it further." This direct response respects your feelings and boundaries, avoiding further questions.
"It's important to be honest about your relationship without feeling the need to justify it. You deserve to address your circumstances comfortably." This emphasizes the importance of clarity.
"Starting with your discomfort will open the door for discussion without it feeling like an attack on your boyfriend's purchases. He should understand you have needs."
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