In Slate's Dear Prudence column, an advice seeker contemplates whether to react physically to a brother-in-law's inappropriate advances during family gatherings, especially after alcohol consumption. Prudence advises against striking him physically due to potential consequences, instead recommending a loud and public confrontation to shame him, suggesting it could lead to family protection. In another query, a couple wonders about sending a gift when unable to attend a wedding, with Prudence emphasizing that the absence of a gift won’t result in legal action but may affect relationships and highlighting the importance of consideration for the couple's feelings.
You won't win a judgment in small claims court for not sending a wedding gift. It's more about considering the couple's feelings.
Instead of responding physically to your brother-in-law, make a scene that exposes his unwanted behavior to family members and seek their support.
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