"If Leah is telling you when her brother is doing things that can cause him harm, that's a good thing. If she's also snitching on him for things that aren't exactly wrong, such as putting 'too much' ketchup on his burger, then you should have a conversation with her about the appropriate time to tell on him versus simply disagreeing with his choices."
"Hopefully, your son will come to recognize that his sister is apt to report on his behavior and will learn, at the very least, not to let her catch him doing inappropriate stuff. This is very normal sibling behavior, and I don't think it will permanently harm the relationship between Leah and Wyatt unless it becomes the defining dynamic between them."
Leah's tattling on Wyatt can prevent dangerous situations, but it may also create tension between them. Parents should encourage Leah to report harmful actions while discussing appropriate boundaries for reporting minor issues. This behavior is typical among siblings, and as long as it doesn't dominate their relationship, it can be managed positively. Parents should foster a healthy sibling dynamic where both children can enjoy each other's company without constant reporting.
Read at Slate Magazine
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