The article reflects on the author's personal journey of grief following the loss of their mother 18 years ago. During an intense basketball game, a commercial prompts a deep emotional response, highlighting how loss can surface unexpectedly. The author likens grief to humidity in the atmosphere—always present, shaping experiences and emotions in subtle ways. Rather than disappearing, grief evolves, becoming multifaceted and intertwined with daily life, illustrating the enduring impact of love and loss over time.
The sharp edges of grief don't vanish; they just space themselves out, lying in wait. Healing isn’t erasing loss but rather learning to live with it.
My grief is composed and self-sufficient one moment, then reckless, loud, and needy the next. It's a nuanced presence, part of my atmosphere.
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