"If they are friendly with other kids at school, but just haven't yet found any close friends that they want to hang out with at home, that might not be such a bad thing. The same way that we don't always want to hang out with our co-workers after work, kids don't always quickly form strong friendships with their peers in school."
"If they weren't able to form good relationships during school hours, it could indicate a problem. But they seem to be adjusting well."
Two boys, ages 13 and 8, have moved and made friends at school but are reluctant to extend those friendships outside. They are loyal to their old friends and enjoy their close bond. The younger boy has had play dates that were not reciprocated, and the older boy prefers independence in his friendships. The parent is concerned about their social development and seeks ways to encourage them to form friendships outside their home environment.
Read at Slate Magazine
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