The article reflects on the author's complicated relationship with dogs, balancing affection for their own border collie, Roxie, against a general indifference to other dogs. Despite a more reserved personality, the author hopes Roxie will inspire greater open-heartedness and connection with the world. Observing the warm and engaging interactions dog lovers have with Roxie, the author wrestles with feelings of pride and a desire to fit into the dog-loving community, realizing their nuanced feelings about companionship and acceptance.
I'm new to being a dog owner. I'm working out the boundaries of familiarity.
I got a dog because I wanted to believe in something better. I thought Roxie would teach me the kind of presence and open-heartedness.
Dog people want to engage with Roxie. They present their hands to her nostrils before tickling her chin or running both hands along her chest and belly.
I appreciate dogs, but won't stop to pat a stranger's dog, unless I'm trying to manufacture a version of myself who has an easy relationship with the world.
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