"This seems to be a simple misunderstanding, so I wouldn't beat myself up if I were you. But polite and professional distance will be the best option. And more to the point, it seems that's what she's looking for. If you had a closer relationship, I'd suggest you tell her, I think that I offended you in some way and I want to make it right."
"Recently, a guest whom I have seen several times was at the pool with her spouse, two toddlers and baby. She and I had always exchanged pleasantries, so when she went to use the restroom with the baby in her arms as her spouse watched the older kids, I asked if she wanted me to hold the baby for her. She declined graciously and I returned to my tasks. Since then, however, she has avoided me."
A pool monitor offered to hold a baby for a regular guest who declined, and afterward the guest began avoiding direct interaction. Polite, professional distance is recommended as the appropriate response when someone appears uncomfortable, since pressing further may worsen the situation. If a closer relationship existed, a direct apology could be an option, but additional conversation may be counterproductive now. A separate example describes a longtime friend who repeatedly one-ups personal stories and asks no questions, which can discourage future outreach. Recognize that misunderstandings happen and prioritize boundaries and respectful distance in social encounters.
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