"I was with the same person (my first everything guy) for 23 years. A few years after the shock of a divorce, I met someone 10 years my junior. He makes me feel I'm the most beautiful woman in the world, complimenting on what my ex considered my faults, showing I am still a sexy, desirable woman and making me feel like I matter in this world."
"You are overdue for a conversation with this man in which you tell him you need to know how important having children is to him. Explain that his friends trying to fix him up with younger women because he'd make a great dad is unnerving, and you do not want to stand in his way if he wants to be one."
A woman left a 23-year relationship and began seeing a man ten years younger who makes her feel attractive, desired, and valued. He has said he could live without children, but she fears he may later regret or resent that decision and worries that his friends' attempts to pair him with younger women could influence him. She dreads watching him build a family with someone else or remaining in his life nonromantically. The recommended action is to ask directly how important having children is to him, express that being stepped aside would be heartbreaking, and request a clear answer about his intentions.
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