The recent trial of Sean Diddy Combs underscores the significance of language in discussing sexual and domestic violence. As a survivor and researcher, the author emphasizes that the choice of words can either respect or undermine the experiences of victims. Terms like "bad temper" and euphemisms such as "satisfy" obscure the realities of abusive behaviors and the severity of the allegations. Correct terminology is essential not only for clarity but also for honoring victim narratives, highlighting how language shapes public perception and discourse around these issues.
Describing Combs' actions as having a "bad temper" suggests a loss of control, but in reality, it can be a calculated strategy for domestic abusers to assert dominance.
Terms like 'satisfy' downplay the severity of sexual violence allegations, masking the reality of what occurred and potentially diminishing the gravity of the situation.
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