"You're correct that there is stigma against men who enjoy anal stimulation. Some people feel that enjoying butt stuff makes someone a pervert, or reduces a man's masculinity and signals that they are actually homosexual. There's also the frequent assumption that it signals that you're bisexual, which can send people who are otherwise progressive and accepting on quite a spiral."
"I'm a 30-year-old man, and I went through a breakup about two years ago after an eight-year relationship. For a while, I didn't feel emotionally ready to date again. During this time, I've discovered something I enjoy in bed. Dear Looking for Mrs. Butt, I like anal play and prostate stimulation. I can actually have prostate orgasms, complete with ejaculation. It's an intensely pleasurable experience."
Anal and prostate stimulation can produce intense orgasms and ejaculation for some men. Stigma persists that enjoying anal play reduces masculinity or signals homosexuality or bisexuality, which can provoke negative reactions. Women who are interested in giving men anal are less likely than average to hold those stigmatizing beliefs. Partners may derive pleasure from giving pleasure, emotional intimacy, visual or experiential aspects, or dynamics similar to oral sex or BDSM. Navigating dating requires honest, gradual disclosure, attention to consent, mutual curiosity, clear boundaries, and attention to hygiene and safe technique.
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