Individuals can manage social invitations by being firm in their decision not to entertain. When asked about inviting others over, a simple extension of silence or a firm statement like 'I'm not planning anything' can be effective. Providing specific excuses often leads to further questions and pressure from others who will want to know when one will be available or if there's a reason for the refusal. This straightforward approach protects privacy and establishes boundaries.
You say you are busy? Well, when will you be free? They will ask. You say that the house is not ready for visitors? That's all right; we don't expect it to be in perfect shape.
Miss Manners understands that people who have trouble saying no might be sorry to disappoint those who importune them. But to give a specific excuse is to admit that the matter is open for discussion.
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