"If you don't want to do something sexually, you don't have to do it. At the same time, there is a kind of cliché of the heterosexual leaning man who refuses to give his partner oral sex despite how much oral sex she gives him."
"Sometimes it's a point of pride. You sometimes hear people in interviews bragging about it. DJ Khaled once talked about how he doesn't go down on women because 'women should praise the man.'"
"This kind of hatred or disdain of anything vaginal is wrapped up in misogyny or male privilege at the very least."
A man expresses discomfort with performing oral sex on his wife despite her enjoyment. He has previously disliked it in past relationships and feels pressured to try again. The response emphasizes that personal boundaries are valid, but also addresses societal expectations and misogyny that may influence attitudes towards oral sex. The complexity of sexual preferences and the importance of communication in relationships are highlighted.
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