The article explores the nuances of idealized love and the emotional turmoil that arises from clinging to a version of someone who doesn't truly exist. The author discusses their infatuation with a photograph, illustrating how fantasy can fill emotional voids in reality, yet lead to confusion and regret. The narrative emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and empathy in understanding our feelings, particularly when facing the contradictions of love and idealization. Ultimately, it suggests that embracing our weirdness and acknowledging human complexity is vital for personal growth.
I created an idealized version of a you that doesn't exist and proceeded to fantasize about something happening between us.
I became enamored with a photograph of you that looked back at me with the same desire I had.
Emotions are weird, the human brain is weird and we're all a little fucking weird so please meet me with grace.
sorry it got away from me <3
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