The article discusses a caregiver's experience managing her father's care with minimal help from her siblings. By implementing a shared spreadsheet for expenses and a straightforward reimbursement system, she maintains financial harmony and sibling relationships. The caregiver charges less than market rate for housing, ensuring a fair balance. Clear communication with her father and siblings has prevented resentment, allowing her to focus on providing quality care while also enjoying family time. This approach exemplifies the importance of organization and openness in caregiving situations.
I love my father and would not have it any other way; however, as I told my siblings, I am doing this for him and not for them.
This solution is rooted in clear communication with your siblings and father, which saves a lot of strife.
I told my siblings to create a spreadsheet, and everyone lists their expenses associated with Dad's care.
At the end of each year, I give my siblings a current balance so that they are aware.
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