Maceo Clardy, a resident of Berkeley, died on February 8 after facing 40 years of homelessness. His daughter, Destanie Newell, recalls her first memory of him at age 7, feeling an instant connection despite his absence in her life. Throughout her childhood, she awaited his visits but faced disappointment. A significant turning point came at 16 when her grandmother secretly connected them, allowing Destanie to reconnect with her father, despite knowing of his struggles with addiction. This connection marked a new chapter in their relationship.
My grandma called me as I walked down the street with my best friend: Sweetheart, I have someone here who wants to talk to you. I nearly fainted the day I heard his voice on the other end of my line. Hey Baby Girl, do you know who this is? Dad? Was this my long-lost father? Because I was in foster care at the time, my grandma was not supposed to call me and connect us. But I was happy she did because I was able to build my relationship with him on my terms.
I remember sitting at my grandparents' large picture window, waiting, hoping, and wishing for another visit. I'd even swear I'd see him driving by or standing at the Piggly Wiggly, a few check stands over. Secretly, I'd build up hope that today would be the day I would see him again and would quietly get let down when he never showed.
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