I've Never Been Able to Handle My Husband's ... Size. Suddenly Everything Has Changed.
Briefly

A 44-year-old cis woman reports a sudden six-month change: her cervix now allows full penetration of her partner's 8-inch penis without discomfort, and intercourse produces continuous, intense vaginal orgasms. Clitoral orgasms now require much greater stimulation and feel explosively intense. She can orgasm consecutively for roughly 15–20 minutes before fatigue and experiences both exhilaration and a sense of alienation. Potential explanations include midlife hormonal shifts, changes in pelvic floor tone or vaginal elasticity, altered neural sensitivity, and heightened psychological arousal. Medical evaluation, pelvic examination, hormonal review, and experimentation with positions and toys can help identify causes and optimize comfort.
Until now, clitoral climax was as easy as flipping a switch, but now it takes an intense amount of energy and stimulation, and when I climax, I feel like my head is going to pop off. Although I have yet to time myself, I've been able to orgasm consecutively for probably 15 to 20 minutes, and I could probably go longer, but at a certain point, it gets too intense and tiring.
I thought I'd almost seen it all, but I don't understand what is happening physiologically right now. My husband's libido seems totally normal for a fella in his 40s, but I'm starting to feel like a Peg Bundy. I need to explore new toys, and I'm by no means complaining. But I am curious and a bit confused, and oddly feel a little alienated at this moment. What is turbo-charging my middle-aged orgasms?
Read at Slate Magazine
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