In the UK, fertility issues affect one in seven couples, and the demand for IVF has surged, with over 1.3 million cycles initiated since 1991. The author, who underwent treatment at 32, reflects on the growing number of friends facing similar struggles. She emphasizes the importance of thoughtful communication when discussing fertility journeys, warning against seemingly innocent comments that can be hurtful. Honesty and openness are crucial in these sensitive conversations, urging individuals to be mindful about their words to those navigating the emotional rollercoaster of IVF.
It can be difficult to know what to say to someone who has shared that this is their path to potential parenthood the outcome possibly exciting, possibly heartbreaking.
From my experience of that challenging time, there are comments that can boost and others that, however well intentioned, can sting.
I think openness is always the best option; if something slips out that your brain later berates you for, then be honest and share your regret.
Most people do not drink alcohol during fertility treatment and acting as if you have just guessed their pregnancy secret will only highlight how upsettingly untrue this is.
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