As a celebrant, I prefer funerals to weddings. This is why | Jackie Bailey
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As a celebrant, I prefer funerals to weddings. This is why | Jackie Bailey
"Weddings and funerals both incorporate physical movement; stand for the bride (or the casket), approach the casket (or the married couple), throw confetti (or leave flowers)."
"A wedding represents the close of one chapter and the beginning of a new, hopefully joyous, exciting one for the couple and their community."
"The person who has died becomes a combination of past and present tense, and the people gathered begin to connect with the person differently through space and time."
"But I think I prefer funerals because the veil is thinner. People enter a space of holding something fragile in their hands, an oasis to feel comfort."
Weddings and funerals begin similarly, with a call to silence phones and an introduction. Weddings celebrate love stories, while funerals honor lives through shared memories. Both rituals involve music, storytelling, and movement, marking transitions in relationships. Weddings signify a new chapter for couples, while funerals reflect on the past and present of the deceased. The relationship with the deceased evolves, and rituals help people connect physically and emotionally. Both occasions are sacred, but funerals are preferred for their emotional depth and fragility.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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