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Women in technology
fromFuturism
1 day ago

Psychologists Found Something Horrible About the Kind of Men Seeking Trad Wives

The tradwife movement's appeal to men is linked to hostile sexism and heightened religiosity, challenging initial assumptions about traditional values.
Exercise
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

I Spent Years Sculpting My Ripped, Muscular Body. I Love It. My Husband Does Not.

Prioritize your body autonomy and communicate boundaries regarding weight changes for a partner's fetish.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

People who stop trying to be liked are often accused of having an attitude - by the people who most benefited from them having none - Silicon Canals

Setting boundaries often leads to others perceiving you as difficult or having an attitude problem, despite unchanged competence.
#social-media
Social media marketing
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who never post on social media but check it every day aren't passive - they opted out of the performance while keeping the window, and keeping the window without paying the price is the most rational position available and the one the platform was specifically designed to make feel antisocial - Silicon Canals

Silent scrollers on social media actively choose to observe rather than post, demonstrating discipline and self-control contrary to common perceptions.
Relationships
fromHer Campus
3 days ago

SOCIAL MEDIA AND MODERN DATING

Social media complicates crushes by turning romance into a performance and influencing perceptions before actual interactions.
Social media marketing
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who never post on social media but check it every day aren't passive - they opted out of the performance while keeping the window, and keeping the window without paying the price is the most rational position available and the one the platform was specifically designed to make feel antisocial - Silicon Canals

Silent scrollers on social media actively choose to observe rather than post, demonstrating discipline and self-control contrary to common perceptions.
Relationships
fromHer Campus
3 days ago

SOCIAL MEDIA AND MODERN DATING

Social media complicates crushes by turning romance into a performance and influencing perceptions before actual interactions.
Film
fromThe Atlantic
4 days ago

Maybe You'll Never Really Know Who You're Marrying

Charlie and Emma's first kiss leads to doubts about their relationship and impending marriage as they confront deeper issues before their wedding.
Mindfulness
fromBig Think
4 days ago

The "rawdogging" trend: A new term for an ancient practice

Rawdogging refers to engaging in introspection without distractions, particularly during flights, highlighting our struggle with downtime.
Wearables
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the people who still wear a wristwatch in a world of smartphones aren't behind - they have a specific relationship with time and intention that most people quietly abandoned without realizing what they gave up - Silicon Canals

Wearing a watch reflects a conscious decision about one's relationship with time, transforming from a necessity to a personal statement.
LGBT
fromQueerty
6 days ago

"I'm gonna hold your tip when I say this": A rancid Grindr take has the gays talking - Queerty

Grindr's entrenched culture includes persistent racism, with users openly expressing racial preferences in dating, reflecting ongoing issues within the queer community.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says the loneliness of having no close friends is not the same loneliness of being isolated - it is the loneliness of being consistently almost known, of spending years in relationships that go up to the edge of real intimacy and stop, and the stopping is always the same stopping and it is always your own hand on the door - Silicon Canals

Real connection requires depth, not just quantity, in relationships to avoid feelings of isolation.
Relationships
fromInsideHook
2 days ago

Does Your Relationship Have a "Gap"?

Relationship gaps refer to notable imbalances between couples, including differences in age, interests, and lifestyle choices.
#dating-apps
fromBustle
2 weeks ago
Relationships

The Great Dating App Age Range Preference Debate Is Happening On TikTok

Relationships
fromwww.businessinsider.com
5 days ago

I came up with the 'burned haystack' dating method. It helped me find Mr. Right.

The Burned Haystack Dating Method helps women navigate dating apps, but personal experiences led to a temporary withdrawal from dating.
Relationships
fromBustle
2 weeks ago

The Great Dating App Age Range Preference Debate Is Happening On TikTok

Widening your age range on dating apps can lead to more matches and unexpected connections.
#family-dynamics
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Most families have one person everyone loves but nobody genuinely listens to - and psychology says that person almost always knows exactly who they are, has known for decades, and long ago stopped hoping anyone else would figure it out - Silicon Canals

Family dynamics often lead to certain voices being unheard, creating an invisible hierarchy that affects communication and connection.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Most families have one person everyone loves but nobody genuinely listens to - and psychology says that person almost always knows exactly who they are, has known for decades, and long ago stopped hoping anyone else would figure it out - Silicon Canals

Family dynamics often lead to certain voices being unheard, creating an invisible hierarchy that affects communication and connection.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 day ago

I Spent Years Wishing My Husband Would Ask What I Needed. When He Did, I Froze.

The burden of managing family responsibilities can overwhelm one partner, leading to a need for shared support and communication.
#online-dating
Startup companies
fromwww.businessinsider.com
2 weeks ago

The king of love: How Spencer Rascoff reshaped Tinder and our dating lives

Spencer Rascoff emphasizes the importance of finding the right partner and aims to revitalize online dating through innovative changes at Match Group.
Psychology
fromMail Online
3 weeks ago

No luck on Tinder? Why should REMOVE your best qualities from profile

Dating profiles featuring personal stories attract more romantic interest than profiles listing qualities as bullet points, because narratives create empathy and human connection.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

We've Always Been Mesmerized by Stories of How Couples Met. There's a Far More Interesting Question to Ask.

Startup companies
fromwww.businessinsider.com
2 weeks ago

The king of love: How Spencer Rascoff reshaped Tinder and our dating lives

Spencer Rascoff emphasizes the importance of finding the right partner and aims to revitalize online dating through innovative changes at Match Group.
Psychology
fromMail Online
3 weeks ago

No luck on Tinder? Why should REMOVE your best qualities from profile

Dating profiles featuring personal stories attract more romantic interest than profiles listing qualities as bullet points, because narratives create empathy and human connection.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

We've Always Been Mesmerized by Stories of How Couples Met. There's a Far More Interesting Question to Ask.

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
11 hours ago

A letter to the person who is terrified of giving up being single: the freedom you're protecting is real, and the loneliness you're tolerating is also real, and the courage isn't in choosing one over the other, it's in admitting you've been holding both this entire time - Silicon Canals

Long-term singleness can bring both genuine freedom and loneliness, challenging the narratives of being either broken or enlightened.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Teen Romance and Breakups in the Digital Age

Teenage romantic breakups are significantly impacted by social media, texting, and AI, leading to new challenges and consequences.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 hours ago

My Girlfriend's Sexual Behavior Would Really Turn Most Men On. But It's Killing Me With Embarrassment.

Personal preferences in sexual communication vary; not everyone enjoys or feels comfortable with dirty talk.
fromMail Online
4 weeks ago

Scientists reveal where you're going WRONG on your dating profile

Your profile should first and foremost appeal to you and reflect who you are. If you want to add a touch of authenticity, you can include something slightly different that feels genuinely yours. Choosing a strategy based on social desirability strips us of authenticity and blurs our identity as individuals. It protects us, but at the same time it stereotypes us.
Photography
LGBT
fromWIRED
3 weeks ago

Can Tinder Fix The Dating Landscape It Helped Ruin?

Tinder's new feature 'Double Date' allows users to pair profiles with friends, contrasting with past account-sharing prohibitions.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago

There's an Unfortunate Pattern to the Women I Sleep With. I'm Becoming "That Guy."

Insecurity about dating younger women can stem from societal judgment and personal feelings of inadequacy.
from24/7 Wall St.
4 weeks ago

Bumble's AI Dating Concierge Sparked a Reddit Sentiment Flip From 29 to 76

Bee learns users' values, relationship goals, and communication style through private chats, then surfaces matches with compatibility explanations. Bumble is also experimenting with removing the traditional swipe mechanic entirely in select markets, replacing it with chapter-based profiles designed to fight swipe fatigue among Gen Z users.
Venture
Mobile UX
fromEngadget
1 month ago

Bumble is the latest dating app to add an AI assistant

Bumble is testing an AI chatbot called Bee that matches compatible users based on values and preferences, eliminating the need for manual profile swiping.
#open-relationships
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 days ago

He told me he was in an open relationship...after we hooked up. Am I wrong to be annoyed? - Queerty

Open relationships can create misunderstandings if all parties are not upfront about their status before engaging.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 days ago

People Who Convinced Their Partners To Open Their Relationships Share How It REALLY Went For Them

Open relationships can be a solution for couples facing emotional challenges, allowing sexual freedom while maintaining a primary partnership.
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 days ago

He told me he was in an open relationship...after we hooked up. Am I wrong to be annoyed? - Queerty

Open relationships can create misunderstandings if all parties are not upfront about their status before engaging.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 days ago

People Who Convinced Their Partners To Open Their Relationships Share How It REALLY Went For Them

Open relationships can be a solution for couples facing emotional challenges, allowing sexual freedom while maintaining a primary partnership.
#sexual-assault
Digital life
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

Tinder wants you to meet people offline. Its CEO tells us it's responding to 'changing consumer tastes.'

Tinder is launching new 2026 features including astrology matching, AI photo enhancements, and in-person Events to combat swipe fatigue and attract users frustrated with online dating.
#modern-dating
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago
Relationships

It's One of the Most Infuriating Moves a Potential Romantic Interest Can Pull. I Talked to One Man About Why He Does It.

Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Why Deep People Struggle in Modern Relationships

Modern dating prioritizes speed over depth, creating pressure that conflicts with those who need time for genuine connections.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

It's One of the Most Infuriating Moves a Potential Romantic Interest Can Pull. I Talked to One Man About Why He Does It.

Modern dating often involves miscommunication and lack of follow-through, leading to frustration and confusion.
Relationships
fromIndependent
3 days ago

The Divorce Diaries: 'A colleague found pictures of my husband with our kids on Tinder - he lied his way out of it'

A woman in her early 50s shares her experience of discovering her husband's infidelity on Tinder after nearly 20 years of marriage.
#dating
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

When Men Ask Me This One Question On a First Date, They Never Hear From Me Again

Setting boundaries in dating leads to healthier relationships and eliminates judgmental partners.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

When Men Ask Me This One Question On a First Date, They Never Hear From Me Again

Setting boundaries in dating leads to healthier relationships and eliminates judgmental partners.
#relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

My Fiancee Reconnected With Her Useless Mother. Now She Has Some New "Ideas" About What Our Life Should Look Like.

The couple faces significant disagreements about children, finances, and family relationships, raising concerns about their future together.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

Help! I'm Making a Big Change in My Love Life. Being Honest About My Past Could Sabotage It.

Honesty about past relationships is crucial for building trust with new partners.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

Help! My New Boyfriend Is Transforming Me Into a More Powerful Version of Myself. Everyone Says It's a Bad Sign.

New confidence and physical changes can trigger loved ones' concern about manipulation or abuse; evaluate their warnings, seek outside perspective, and set clear boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

I Stumbled Across My Boyfriend's ChatGPT. It Ended Our Relationship.

A partner's private doubts about a relationship can be devastating to discover, especially when shared with an AI.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

My Fiancee Reconnected With Her Useless Mother. Now She Has Some New "Ideas" About What Our Life Should Look Like.

The couple faces significant disagreements about children, finances, and family relationships, raising concerns about their future together.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

Help! I'm Making a Big Change in My Love Life. Being Honest About My Past Could Sabotage It.

Honesty about past relationships is crucial for building trust with new partners.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago
Relationships

Help! My New Boyfriend Is Transforming Me Into a More Powerful Version of Myself. Everyone Says It's a Bad Sign.

fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Death of Romance?

According to a 2025 poll by Rassmussen, 37% of single adults under 30 in the US report that they are "not interested" in dating at all. It appears that many young Americans have effectively given up on romance. This begs the question of why so many young people would forego one of the most basic physical, social, and emotional human needs: an intimate relationship with a loving partner.
Miscellaneous
#friendship
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago
Relationships

Psychology says the number of close friends you actually need as you get older is far lower than most people assume - Silicon Canals

The number of close friends needed for fulfillment is between three and five, not a large group.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

People who have a hard time maintaining close friendships aren't lonely because they can't connect - they're lonely because they connect quickly and withdraw quietly, and the withdrawal is so gradual and so habitual that most of them have never once watched themselves do it in real time - Silicon Canals

Many people excel at making friends but struggle to maintain those connections over time.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the number of close friends you actually need as you get older is far lower than most people assume - Silicon Canals

The number of close friends needed for fulfillment is between three and five, not a large group.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

People who have a hard time maintaining close friendships aren't lonely because they can't connect - they're lonely because they connect quickly and withdraw quietly, and the withdrawal is so gradual and so habitual that most of them have never once watched themselves do it in real time - Silicon Canals

Many people excel at making friends but struggle to maintain those connections over time.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I'm 65 and I recently realized I have spent my entire marriage being the strong one, and now that I actually need someone to be strong for me I don't know how to ask without feeling like I'm dismantling a promise I made forty years ago - Silicon Canals

Long-term role rigidity in marriage can lead to one partner becoming the sole pillar, creating an imbalance that may hinder growth and change.
Artificial intelligence
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

The rules of dating are changing - and quickly

AI-driven tools and remote-work–driven job instability are reshaping dating: exhaustion and career focus cool Silicon Valley dating while apps pivot to AI and alternate platforms.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

The Psychology of Falling in Love in 240 Hours

Cultural pressures and accelerated intimacy contribute to rapid commitments in relationships, as seen in the show 'Love Is Blind'.
Relationships
fromFast Company
6 days ago

Can a picky eater find happiness with an adventurous foodie? Modern daters debate the gravity of relationship gaps

The restaurant gap highlights mismatched dining preferences and spending habits between partners, impacting relationship compatibility.
fromFuturism
2 months ago

Hot New App Makes Single People Check in Constantly in Case They Die Alone

Available for a one-time payment of the equivalent of $1.15 in US dollars, the app - with the evocative name of "Are You Dead?" - is basically a large countdown timer that you have to reset regularly, and which alerts an emergency contact if you let the time run out. As the BBC reports, the app's counter is set to two days by default. After downloading, a user simply has to open the app and tap a large button to reset it.
World news
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

How To Tell If Your Standards Are, In Fact, Too High

Having standards in dating is important, but excessively high standards can hinder meeting compatible partners.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

People who say they "don't have a type" actually have the most predictable patterns in dating - Silicon Canals

Many people repeatedly choose partners with similar personality traits and behavioral patterns, even when they believe each relationship is different.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
3 weeks ago

I'm A 39-Year-Old Divorced Woman, And There's 1 Infuriating Phrase I Keep Seeing On Dating Apps

Single motherhood can lead to personal fulfillment and a desire for authentic connections, despite societal pressures and dating challenges.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

A Bad Idea: Posting Conspiracy Theories When Online Dating

Belief in conspiracy theories reduces online dating success and harms formation of new relationships, despite sometimes attracting like-minded individuals.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

The Guy I'm Seeing Says I'm the "Exception" to Everything He Likes in Bed. Uh, Is This a Red Flag?

A partner's past mistreatment of other women is a significant red flag, regardless of how well he currently treats you.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Can Voice Notes Hit the Right Note on Dating Apps?

Voice notes on dating apps convey vocal characteristics and reduce uncertainty about potential matches, potentially improving dating success compared to text messaging alone.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

The Torment of My Never-Ending Breakup

A romantic relationship that began at a bookstore in 2009 is ending after years of shared experiences, travel, and deep emotional connection.
Relationships
fromBustle
1 month ago

On TikTok, People Are Talking About Why You Should Have A Dating Roster

Dating multiple people simultaneously through a roster approach reduces anxiety, prevents obsessive focus on single matches, and increases chances of finding compatible partners.
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

This 'Lazy' Dating Habit Sabotages Men's Efforts

According to Feeld, nearly seven in 10 straight millennial men have never updated, or rarely update, their dating app profiles since first filling them out. This raises a question: Is this lack of care an early warning of the future burden women might have to shoulder in relationships?
Relationships
#clear-coding
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Excruciating but worth it: How a decades-old cult dating book helped me find love

A seven-week self-help workbook guides single people through exercises to attract romantic partners by addressing mindset, availability, and relationship readiness.
Relationships
fromFast Company
1 month ago

Tinder says Gen Z still believes in true love-they just want a soft launch first (exclusive)

Gen Z maintains strong belief in true love and marriage at higher rates than older generations, but pursues relationships through smaller commitments and online interactions rather than traditional milestones.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

The golden age of dating apps is over. Now finding a match can cost $20 a month.

Dating apps have shifted from free platforms to heavily paywalled services since the pandemic, reducing match quality while increasing costs that users pay despite diminishing returns.
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

'Retromancing' Is A Throwback Answer To Everyone's Online Romance Fatigue

We live in a world of instant gratification. Sushi arrives at our door in minutes, a gorgeous coat can be bought with a few taps, and dating apps let us feel attractive from the comfort of our couch. With everything available instantly, it's no surprise that some singles are craving the opposite - a rewind to romance, old-school style. Inspired by "Friends" episodes and parents beginning sentences with "Back in my day...," daters are chasing grand gestures, simpler dates
Relationships
#in-person-dating
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Are You 'Monkey Branching'? Here's What To Know About The Toxic Habit.

"Monkey branching is when a person stays in their current relationship, even though they know they want to leave, in order to line up their next partner," said clinical psychologist Sabrina Romanoff. The idea is that by monkey branching (or "monkey barring"), you can avoid having to be alone after a relationship ends. There's no real "break" after the breakup, as you've already formed romantic interest in someone else.
Relationships
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

Buckle up: Partiful is the new Tinder

Partiful added a "Crush" RSVP feature letting users anonymously indicate interest in mutual event attendees, enabling matches and in-app messaging with a monthly limit of ten crushes.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Pros and Cons of an 'Explorationship' in Dating

An explorationship is when you and someone else are exploring the possibility of a committed relationship. You've gone a little-or maybe a lot-beyond the just-going-out-on-dates-with-each-other phase. There may already be kissing and holding hands. There may already be couple-ish things that you do together. There may even be a little bedroom rodeo stuff or a lot of it. But you still aren't quite ready to call each other a significant other yet-even though the two of you are giving such a possibility significant consideration.
Relationships
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Why Dating and Relationships Can Be Awkward and Embarrassing

Awkward dating conversations stem from face threats to positive and negative self-image, and indirect, face-saving strategies reduce discomfort and improve initiating, intensifying, and ending relationships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Psychology says the more intelligent a man is the harder it is to find a girlfriend - Silicon Canals

High intelligence can hinder romantic success by promoting overanalysis, turning dates into problem-solving and creating barriers to genuine emotional connection.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Most People Don't Have a 'Type'

People's stated partner preferences often differ from who they actually fall for; attraction frequently arises to partners lacking declared must-haves.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Always Used to Love Hearing About My Single Friends' Sex Romps. Something Has Changed.

Sex jealousy stems from comparing a committed relationship to others' sexual experiences and can be eased by increasing intimacy, introducing novelty, or finding external excitement.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Three Roads Diverged in Romantic Life

Profound love is about the desire to live with a partner who can thrive in a mutual relationship. Sometimes, life wins out over love, and one partner may say, "I will always love you, but we cannot flourish together." Profound love isn't always synonymous with long-term love; some couples divorce despite deep affection. The heart of enduring love is the capacity to bring out the best in each other.
Relationships
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

This Hate-Fueled Dating Trend Isn't As Bad As It Sounds

People form relationships by bonding over shared dislikes and petty grievances, making mutual negativity a new metric of compatibility.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Choremancing: is this the best way to date or the death of romance?

And ever since the dating app Plenty of Fish included it as a trend in its annual report last year, it appears to have kicked off in a big way. People are going on dates at the gym. They're going on gardening dates. They're even turning the weekly shop into a date. This is so depressing. Where's the romance? That's
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Relationships
fromBustle
2 months ago

According To TikTok, Being "Too Busy" To Date Can Be A Major Green Flag

Being busy and invested in personal goals increases attractiveness and signals independence in dating.
fromJezebel
1 month ago

Congrats to This Couple for Entering the 'Fling' Stage

After St. Barts, Brady told People: "You know what? I don't have much time for a personal life or much time for myself, but I love working, and I love my kids," effectively brushing off the rumors. However, that peace didn't last long as the two were spotted a few weeks later dancing and chatting at a Super Bowl after-party.
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