Dear Abby: My husband secretly invited his new buddy to our house
What the bartender and your husband are doing is inappropriate. It might be worthwhile to ask her employer whether there are any rules about their staff socializing with patrons outside the establishment.
Is Physical Attraction Key to a Godly Marriage? Discover the Perfect Balance!
Ignoring physical attraction in the name of 'spirituality' can lead to struggles, especially in intimacy. God won't force you to marry someone you don't find appealing.
Help! My Friend Keeps Complaining About Her Husband. I Might Tell Him for My Own Sake.
Intervening in friend's marriage may cause complications; both partners must be willing for counseling to work, and outside influence can lead to trouble.