Careers
fromFast Company
12 hours agoWhy you're just one event away from quitting your job
Unexpected jolts can lead to impulsive job resignations, but deliberate responses can facilitate smarter career decisions.
Social anxiety and depression had other plans, leaving me in an ugly cycle of self-isolation and rumination. Terrified of rejection, I'd meet someone interesting during one of my English lectures and invite them out for frozen yogurt in my head.
Across history, human moral systems have shared a curious pattern: the stricter the rulebook, the richer the archive of exceptions. Religions preach chastity and accumulate scandals, empires proclaim justice and practice conquest, corporations enshrine "values" and reward results at any cost. The problem is not that moral codes are useless. It is that they are aspirational reminders, not accurate descriptions, let alone regulators, of human behavior.
To successfully repair after a mistake, you need to acknowledge and name the mistake, validate the other person's feelings and viewpoint, and create a plan for the specific actions you will take to prevent this mistake from occurring again.
Many professionals focus on big projects and headline achievements, but research shows that soft skills and visibility strongly influence promotions. LinkedIn data reveals that employees who combine hard and soft skills get promoted about 8% faster than those who focus only on technical abilities, and skills like communication, teamwork and problem solving are linked to promotions up to 11% faster. Regularly updating and showcasing your skills is also tied to faster advancement.