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Philosophy
fromApaonline
6 hours ago

Doing Philosophy in a Borrowed Tongue

Experiencing a second language can create a profound sense of self-difference and challenges in communication for international students.
fromwww.theguardian.com
12 hours ago

Hate small talk? You may enjoy that dull' chat more than you think, say researchers

Paulo Coelho's assertion that he can endure defeats and pain but cannot tolerate boredom underscores a common human aversion to dull experiences. However, research indicates that avoiding seemingly tedious conversations can lead to missing out on significant mood boosts and health benefits derived from social connections.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

The Degendering of English

The most obvious example is the adoption of the singular 'they' to replace clunky constructions like 'he or she' and 'he/she.' Language purists argue that this is ungrammatical, even though 'they' has been employed in just this way by authors as diverse as Chaucer, Shakespeare, Austen, Dickinson, and Shaw.
Typography
#communication
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals

Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
fromJezebel
1 week ago
Psychology

Every Year, Human Beings Speak Fewer Words than They Used To, Study Suggests

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Startup companies

7 phrases you should always avoid if you want to sound intelligent, according to psychology - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals

Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
Psychology
fromJezebel
1 week ago

Every Year, Human Beings Speak Fewer Words than They Used To, Study Suggests

A steady decline in spoken conversation has been observed over the past 14 years, with people speaking significantly fewer words each year.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Startup companies

7 phrases you should always avoid if you want to sound intelligent, according to psychology - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Talking to Toddlers and Talking to Terrorists

Negotiation techniques for complex situations mirror those used with young children, revealing fundamental insights about human behavior and communication.
Python
fromAntocuni
2 weeks ago

Inside SPy, part 2: Language semantics

SPy aims to enhance Python's performance while integrating static typing, balancing between an interpreter and a compiler.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I'm 37 and my daughter just said sorry for laughing too loud and I recognized the exact moment a child starts editing herself because I remember the day I did it too, and I remember who taught me. - Silicon Canals

Children often self-regulate their joy, but this can lead to unnecessary apologies for natural expressions of happiness.
Relationships
fromMail Online
2 weeks ago

Stop saying 'dumped' to describe a breakup, woke expert says

The term 'dumped' adds shame to relationship breakups and should be replaced with more respectful language.
Digital life
fromFast Company
3 weeks ago

Is AI killing the human voice in writing?

Predictive language technologies challenge individual expression by influencing how writers generate and complete their thoughts.
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
3 weeks ago

Can you solve these language puzzles? Test your skills with these problems from North America's biggest linguistics competition

Computational linguistics is a two-way street: You're either using a computer to do things with human language or communicate or translate or teach a foreign language, or you're using computational techniques to learn something about human languages. Her work documenting and preserving endangered languages uses a little bit of both.
Education
Philosophy
fromApaonline
2 weeks ago

Distracting Metaphors

Metaphors can illuminate or obscure understanding, but some, like Holocaust comparisons, can provoke discomfort and controversy.
Careers
fromgizmodo.com
3 weeks ago

This Translator Will Help You Parse Your Boss's Mind-Numbing LinkedIn Speak

Kagi's AI translation tool decodes corporate jargon and LinkedIn Speak into plain English, making business communication accessible to non-managers.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
3 weeks ago

Want Your Teen Daughter To Talk To You? Try Playing Pretend Again

Tweens and teens can still connect with parents through playful interactions, fostering better communication and emotional support.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Silent Minds: Exploring the Absence of Inner Speech

Inner speech varies among individuals, and not everyone experiences it, indicating diverse cognitive processes.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says if someone secretly dislikes you they'll almost never say it out loud - but their body will, in the microseconds before they've decided what their face is supposed to be doing, and learning to read those moments is one of the more uncomfortable social skills available to anyone willing to develop it - Silicon Canals

Microexpressions reveal true emotions faster than conscious control, providing insights into feelings that words may conceal.
Roam Research
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Why Do Americans and Brits Speak Differently?

American r-pronunciation preserves the older British form from the 16th century, while modern British r-dropping developed later after American colonization.
#maternal-ambivalence
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

A Secret That Some Mothers Will Never Tell

Mothers commonly experience love without liking their children, a stigmatized feeling kept secret due to idealized motherhood expectations that deny natural ambivalence.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

A Secret That Some Mothers Will Never Tell

Mothers commonly experience love without liking their children, a stigmatized feeling kept secret due to idealized motherhood expectations that deny natural ambivalence.
Artificial intelligence
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Anti-Intelligence: When Language Operates Without a Mind

AI generates language through a fundamentally different structural architecture than human cognition, not through inferior intelligence but through inverted processes detached from lived experience and stakes.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Research says if a person uses these 9 phrases in a conversation they probably have below-average social skills - Silicon Canals

Improving social skills is possible by recognizing and changing harmful conversational habits.
Digital life
fromMail Online
1 month ago

What's YOUR Online Language? There are 5 internet styles - take test

Five distinct 'Online Languages' categorize how people use the internet, reflecting personality traits and problem-solving approaches similar to love languages.
Relationships
fromBusiness Matters
1 month ago

Real-time video translation for families: How to end awkward multilingual calls

Real-time video translation removes language barriers in family calls, enabling natural conversations and preserving emotional connection across multilingual households.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

9 things people with genuinely high social intelligence never do in a conversation - and the one that separates them most clearly from people who are merely charming is something so subtle that most people have never consciously noticed it happening - Silicon Canals

High social intelligence involves genuine engagement and listening, avoiding superficial interactions.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I asked 11 parents what their biggest parenting regret is and every single one described something they said rather than something they did - and the consistency of that pattern suggests that children's ears are more precise instruments than parents realize - Silicon Canals

Parents' spoken words create lasting regrets more than their actions, with negative statements profoundly shaping children's self-perception and identity development.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I grew up watching my mother apologize to my father for having opinions and I spent twenty years thinking I'd broken the pattern until my partner said 'you always start your sentences with sorry' and I heard her voice come out of my mouth. - Silicon Canals

Intergenerational relationship patterns persist in automatic physical and verbal behaviors despite conscious awareness, operating below the level of deliberate choice.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says the families where nothing was ever discussed are the ones producing the adults who can't stop talking about everything - and both generations think the other one is the problem - Silicon Canals

Families that suppress meaningful conversation often produce adults who compulsively overshare, as a reaction to years of being unheard and emotionally dismissed.
Education
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Fluent at Home, Silent at Work: Growing Up Bilingual

Heritage speakers lack formal language instruction in their native language, creating gaps in professional and academic domains that they internalize as personal failure rather than systemic educational gaps.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: My dad's idea of conversation is to ask silly questions

Reframe a parent's seemingly trivial questions as genuine attempts to engage and connect, viewing them as offerings rather than annoyances.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago

There's a type of person who can hear one sentence from a stranger and know exactly what kind of household they grew up in. They're not psychic. They were just raised in a home where reading people accurately was the difference between a calm evening and a terrible one. - Silicon Canals

Trauma survivors' exceptional ability to read emotions and social cues stems from childhood threat detection training, not innate intuition or empathy, resulting in exhausting hypervigilance.
Psychology
fromTheregister
4 weeks ago

Jargon-lovers are worse at their jobs, say boffins

Employees who find corporate jargon impressive tend to have weaker analytical thinking skills and make poorer workplace decisions.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Are There Linguistic Conspiracy Theories?

The term "conspiracy theory" calls to mind a variety of dubious claims and controversies, like rumors about Area 51, claims that the Earth is flat, and the movement known as QAnon. At first blush, these phenomena would seem to have little in common with bogus word origins. But there are a variety of false etymologies that spread virally and refuse to go away, in much the same way that stories about chemtrails, black helicopters, and UFOs refuse to die.
Writing
Education
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

7 words highly intelligent people use in conversation that average people mispronounce - Silicon Canals

Correct pronunciation of commonly mispronounced words often reflects extensive reading, attention to language, and habitual auditory correction rather than showing off.
Silicon Valley
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says people who still use complete sentences in text messages share 7 cognitive traits that are becoming increasingly rare - Silicon Canals

Maintaining full sentences and proper punctuation in digital messages correlates with stronger impulse control and deeper information processing, reflecting healthier cognitive habits.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Is It Better to Learn a Second Language as a Child or Adult?

Parents often hear the warning: "If your child doesn't learn a second language early, they'll never be fluent." Adults, meanwhile, are told: "It's just too late for you to learn now." These claims are familiar and tidy, but misleading. Are they actually true? Is it better to learn a second language as a child or as an adult? The short answer is that it depends on what we mean by "better."
OMG science
Science
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
1 month ago

Speech sounds are a blurhere's how your brain sorts them out

High-gamma brain-wave power drops about 100 milliseconds after word boundaries, marking word endings and tracking native-language fluency.
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

I Hate To Break It To You, But There's A Huge Chance You've Been Saying Extremely Common Words And Phrases Wrong Your Entire Life

1. Tongue in cheek 2. Old wives' tales 3. Statute of limitations 4. To be specific 5. Nipped in the bud 6. Get down to brass tacks 7. Deep-seated hatred 8. All intents and purposes 9. Wheelbarrow 10. Champing at the bit 11. Jury-rigged 12. Ulterior motive 13. Bald-faced lie 14. Dog eat dog world 15. Chump change 16. Dime a dozen 17. Duct tape 18. Can't see the forest for the trees 19. Quote unquote 20. Could have 21. Chalk it up 22. Iced tea 23. Take for granted 24. Blessing in disguise 25. Bated breath
Writing
fromTravel + Leisure
1 month ago

This Is the Friendliest Language in the World, According to a New Study-and No, It's Not English

When respondents were asked which languages feel the most welcoming, Portuguese emerged on top, selected by 34 percent of participants. Spanish came in a close second with 33 percent of respondents calling it the friendliest, followed by Italian in third. Together, these languages form a clear cluster associated with warmth and approach.
Psychology
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Words Without Consequence

For the first time, speech has been decoupled from consequence. We now live alongside AI systems that converse knowledgeably and persuasively-deploying claims about the world, explanations, advice, encouragement, apologies, and promises-while bearing no vulnerability for what they say. Millions of people already rely on chatbots powered by large language models, and have integrated these synthetic interlocutors into their personal and professional lives. An LLM's words shape our beliefs, decisions, and actions, yet no speaker stands behind them.
Philosophy
Miscellaneous
fromMail Online
2 months ago

Study reveals why Barrow and Lancaster accents are so dissimilar

Accent rhoticity differs sharply between nearby Barrow-in-Furness and Lancaster due to intense late-19th-century industrial population mixing.
fromThe New Yorker
2 months ago

Animals Say Hello, but Do They Say Goodbye?

Jane Goodall, the late primatologist, was known for her imitations of chimpanzee greetings. When she met with Prince Harry, in 2019, she approached him slowly, making panting noises through circular lips. She prompted him to pat her lightly on the head, then reached up for an embrace, making soft hooting sounds. During her career, Goodall observed chimps engaging in more than a thousand such greetings. They sometimes touched their lips together, breathed into one another's open mouths, or stood on two legs and hugged.
Science
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I spent twenty years trying to change my mother's mind about things she was factually incorrect about and one day I stopped - not because I gave up, but because I finally understood that her certainty was never actually about the facts - Silicon Canals

Deeply held beliefs resist correction because they serve emotional needs and identity protection, not because people lack access to facts.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says people who instinctively soften their language in emails and texts are not being polite. They are running a real-time calculation about how much honesty the relationship can survive. - Silicon Canals

Softened language in communication reflects a calculated assessment of relationship capacity to handle directness, not mere politeness, functioning as a survival mechanism to protect relational dynamics.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

You know someone lacks intellectual depth when these 8 habits dominate their communication style - Silicon Canals

I've interviewed over 200 people for articles, from startup founders to burned-out middle managers, and I've discovered something fascinating: intellectual depth isn't about fancy degrees or knowing obscure facts. It shows up in how we communicate. When certain habits dominate someone's style, it reveals a concerning lack of curiosity and critical thinking that goes beyond just being annoying-it fundamentally limits their ability to engage with the world meaningfully.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Listen to Your Mother: What Children Learn by Eavesdropping

What makes me even crazier is that I know they can listen. I know this because they do all the time, mostly when they aren't supposed to. I can't tell you how many times I've been having an adult conversation with my husband and/or friends and my two children-who haven't listened to a word I've said all day-suddenly have very thoughtful and detailed questions
Parenting
Philosophy
fromThe Philosopher
2 months ago

On Being and Appearing: Social Reproduction and the Family Form

The family operates as the social form of appearance that conceals and shapes unwaged reproductive labour within capitalist value relations.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

How you answer the phone in the first 2 seconds reveals more about where you grew up than your zip code your car or your degree, and the people who grew up wealthy hear it instantly - Silicon Canals

Phone-answering style reveals social background through tone, wording, and timing, acting as a social fingerprint that signals class and habitus.
fromOpen Culture
2 months ago

Why Some People Think in Words, While Others Think in Pictures & Feelings

Take the sur­prise some have expressed in recent years upon find­ing out that the expres­sion to "pic­ture" some­thing in one's head isn't just a fig­ure of speech. You mean that peo­ple "pic­tur­ing an apple," say, haven't been just think­ing about an apple, but actu­al­ly see­ing one in their heads? The inabil­i­ty to do that has a name: aphan­ta­sia, from the Greek word phan­ta­sia, "image," and prefix - a, "with­out."
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Do you use these 10 phrases regularly? Psychology says you have an exceptionally strong personality - Silicon Canals

Ever noticed how some people just seem unshakeable? They navigate criticism with grace, stand their ground without being aggressive, and somehow manage to stay authentic even when everyone else is playing politics. After interviewing over 200 people for various articles, from startup founders to burned-out middle managers, I've noticed something fascinating: the strongest personalities often share a common vocabulary. Not fancy words or corporate jargon, but simple phrases that reveal how they think about themselves and the world.
Psychology
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