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4 days agoPsychology says the people who feel like they're falling behind in life are usually holding themselves to a timeline that was never theirs to begin with - Silicon Canals
Developmental psychology has long studied what researchers call 'social clocks,' a term coined by psychologist Bernice Neugarten in the 1960s. Neugarten's research found that societies create implicit timetables for major life events: when you should finish school, when you should be established in a career, when you should have children, when you should own property. People who hit these milestones 'on time' reported less stress.
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