To start resolving our hurt, it helps to pause and ask ourselves a different question: What kind of wound am I dealing with? Many painful experiences-rejection, disappointment, humiliation, betrayal, exclusion-do not leave traumatic injuries. They leave emotional wounds. These wounds are real and impactful, even when they do not necessarily involve threat, terror, or a nervous system focused on survival. And yet, they can linger for years, shaping how we see ourselves and others long after the event has passed.
She won't admit it, but I'm hearing from all these helping hands that she showed up late to interviews, didn't send her resume when requested and even failed a drug test. Now she has come to me for help, and I told her I'd let her know. The truth is that I'd prefer not to put my name on the line for someone who is apparently irresponsible. How can I be honest with my friend about these missteps that she never even told me about?
In a high-trust relationship, you trust your partner to take their meds. In a low-trust relationship, you insist your partner take their meds in front of you or send you a video of them taking their meds. 2. I'm a gay male in San Francisco. I'm a bit of a show-off and need some advice on easy and appropriate ways to share my content.