Harriette Cole: It's an immature man who walls off his kids from his partner
Briefly

The article discusses the importance of communication in relationships where one partner feels devalued in their role with children from a previous relationship. It critiques an emotionally immature attitude that limits familial love. Furthermore, it addresses the challenges new parents face returning to work after maternity leave, highlighting feelings of guilt and distraction as they attempt to balance professional responsibilities with caring for their newborn, emphasizing the need for understanding and support in both contexts.
An emotionally mature man would want a partner who also wants to embrace those whom he considers the most precious. He is trying to compartmentalize or control where love comes from, and it doesn't seem to be working.
I’m finding it difficult to focus. All I can think about is my baby, and it's affecting my productivity and ability to be present at work. The guilt of leaving my baby during the day is overwhelming.
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