In crowded buses, particularly where students are present, it's customary to step off briefly to allow others to exit. However, many undergraduates do not adhere to this practice, often exacerbated by distractions like headphones. This situation leads to frustration for those aware of the etiquette, as seen by a Ph.D. student's reaction. Miss Manners acknowledges the difficulty in addressing this behavior directly, suggesting less confrontational methods to communicate needs while navigating the challenges of public transport dynamics.
It would indeed be easier if people stepped off the bus, but Miss Manners fears that no one is going to deputize you as the bus police.
Most people are embarrassed to raise their voices in public and therefore equate it with being rude. But one can speak loudly...without therefore having to resort to mooing or worse.
You can also try to ease your way by warning the person in front of you that yours is the next stop.
The dynamic of crowded public transport is complex, especially when individuals wear headphones and may be unaccustomed to the etiquette involved.
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