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fromwww.mercurynews.com
16 hours ago

Miss Manners: The strangers in my yard seem incredulous when I yell at them

Prominent no-soliciting signs are often ignored; determine whether intrusions are occasional or persistent, identify the responsible company, and complain civilly so legal channels can address illegalities.
#dining
#houseguests
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago

Miss Manners: The neighbors crashed our vacation, and that's not the worst part

Inviting oneself on an anniversary trip is inappropriate and expecting it to be free is unreasonable.
#friendship
fromPortland Mercury
3 weeks ago

To The Doll at the Weed Shop Downtown

"Proper etiquette is essential in customer service, and retaining tips should be viewed with ethics and respect for paying consumers. The actions of service providers impact their reputation and future interactions with customers."
Portland
#hospitality
#social-norms
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: She contaminated the soup and then got petulant with me

Polite corrections can help change behavior without creating conflict.
#air-travel
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: My boyfriend berated me in the parking lot over how I exited the church

Church etiquette requires respecting others' wishes when exiting.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: I gave my neighbor treats and got a rude phone call in return

Thoughtfulness must consider others' needs, like health conditions, to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
#public-behavior
#cultural-sensitivity
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago
Relationships

Miss Manners: Is there a polite way to satisfy my curiosity about the waitress?

Focus on ordering food instead of inquiring about a waitress's background.
fromWho What Wear
2 months ago
Relationships

The Mistakes AAPI Brides Say to Avoid on Their Wedding Days

Understanding cultural significance enhances wedding guest etiquette.
Learning about traditions fosters respect and thoughtful participation.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: What's the rule about giving an ultimatum to a friend?

Establishing a time limit for responses can prevent awkwardness in ticket purchases, especially for limited events.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: Can I, as the host, abandon the rowdy drinkers?

As a host, you cannot properly leave your own party, even though Miss Manners understands both that it has become a bore for you and that the guests are unlikely to notice your absence.
Relationships
Relationships
fromslate.com
1 month ago

We Asked a Bride If She'd Received Our Gift. Her Response Was Outrageous.

People, particularly younger generations, often fail to acknowledge gifts, which raises questions about modern etiquette standards.
#parenting
Law
fromAbove the Law
1 month ago

Chewed Gum Under Courthouse Table Becomes Federal Case Because Of Course It Does - Above the Law

Courtroom incidents can be absurd, as an unexpected gum controversy highlights hygiene issues in legal settings.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Miss Manners: Is it gauche to give visitors a grand tour of my house?

Unless you live in a historic property, are throwing a housewarming party or are orienting a houseguest, tours smack of showing off.
Dining
Food & drink
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: These college students seem stunned when someone wants to get off the bus

Crowded bus etiquette requires stepping off to let others disembark, though few do, leading to confusion and blockage.
#social-skills
#weddings
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago
Retirement

I love weddings, but I leave them early - even if I adore the couple. It's not so wrong, especially if you do it right.

fromBustle
3 months ago
Fashion & style

These 3 Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely To Wear White To Someone Else's Wedding

fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago
Retirement

I love weddings, but I leave them early - even if I adore the couple. It's not so wrong, especially if you do it right.

fromBustle
3 months ago
Fashion & style

These 3 Zodiac Signs Are Most Likely To Wear White To Someone Else's Wedding

fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: I refuse to yield my Father's Day rights to my selfish son-in-law

You are tempting Miss Manners to guess why you don't get along with your daughter's family.
Parenting
#social-invitations
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: Can I put a sign in my bathroom for one particular guest?

It's best to ignore guest bathroom habits rather than address them directly to avoid discomfort.
fromCN Traveller
2 months ago

The golden rules of festivals

Festivals are fantastic opportunities for creating memories, but remember to balance personal documentation with respect for fellow attendees who also wish to enjoy the experience.
Food & drink
#gift-giving
fromEater
2 months ago
Wine

The Best Gifts for an Amazing Host, According to a Party Girl With Taste

Always bring a gift when invited to someone's home; it's a gesture of appreciation and good manners.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago
NYC parents

Miss Manners: I gave the teen money, and now I'm in an awkward situation

Giving a graduation gift is sufficient; a second gift is not necessary to appease others.
fromTasting Table
2 months ago

Ina Garten's Strict Rule When Bringing Flowers To A Dinner Party - Tasting Table

Always bring flowers in a vase to dinner parties to avoid stressing the host.
Avoid niche gifts or dishes; opt for universal items like wine.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: I open the office door and only then realize it's an unwanted visitor

"One can enforce a building rule rudely and one can enforce it politely, but you appear to be asking if the rule itself is rude."
Privacy professionals
Privacy professionals
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: How insistent can I be about the spelling of my child's name?

It's important to correct spelling of names gently to avoid confusion as children learn to spell.
Relatives should not use electronic door codes without explicit permission.
Morning greetings should be initiated by whoever notices the other first, regardless of gender.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

Gen Z divided over influencer's phone etiquette: 'Very polite, but no one else does it'

Basic etiquette, especially in phone conversations, is seen as declining, particularly among younger generations.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: I want to tell these parents that their children are at risk

The prevailing rule of etiquette discourages people from giving unsolicited advice about others' parenting choices, even when concern arises about potential health risks for children.
Privacy professionals
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: We can't have a graduation party, and nobody's going to be happy

It is deemed ill-mannered to invite extended family to a graduation ceremony without offering accommodation or a celebration.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: Our school's teacher appreciation week is so tacky

School staff appreciation should be organized by parents, not mandated by the school.
Parents should not feel pressured to contribute funds or gifts for appreciation events.
History
fromMedievalists.net
3 months ago

How to Behave Like a Civilised Man: Hygiene and Manners from the Middle Ages - Medievalists.net

Medieval etiquette and hygiene were highly valued, contradicting the stereotype of widespread filth and crude manners.
#communication
Relationships
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

'Disrespectful' friend ruins wedding by breaking this major social norm: 'So hillbilly'

Proposing at someone else's wedding can ignite debate on etiquette and respect for the couple's special day.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: The graduation invitation now sounds almost like a threat

Imagine a world in which it was wrong to decline any invitation: An acquaintance invites you to come over for a house-painting party. A rejected lover invites you on a trip. A teenager invites you to go skydiving. Just nuts, as you have already concluded.
Miscellaneous
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: What's the best way to dodge a fishy hug? And what if they chase me?

Maintain personal boundaries in social interactions to ensure comfort and safety.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: Am I petty to think my neighbors' parties are unfair to single people?

Etiquette is not in the business of making everything exactly fair. Unless things are overtly unfair, it is more polite not to notice.
Dining
NYC parents
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: I'm embarrassed to be seen with the lollipop snatcher

Address embarrassing situations with humor and tact, as suggested by Miss Manners.
Emphasis on the importance of proper familial titles like 'mother' over casual alternatives.
Celebrating achievements should focus on sharing joy, not soliciting gifts.
Wearables
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: Was I rude to ask where they got the swell walker?

Asking about medical devices like walkers can border on intrusive, so consider your relationship to the person before inquiring.
Digital life
fromBusiness Insider
3 months ago

Gen Z and boomers are both FaceTiming in public - but for different reasons

Public video calls have become a contentious social issue, raising questions of etiquette and consideration in shared spaces.
fromTasting Table
3 months ago

Avoid This Mistake When Using Starbucks' Mobile App - Tasting Table

When ordering from Starbucks, ensure you select the correct pickup location on the app to prevent confusion at the store or drive-thru.
Coffee
Pets
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 months ago

The dos and don'ts of good petiquette: four cardinal rules for dog owners

Good dog walking etiquette includes cleaning up after your dog and understanding how others perceive your pet.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 months ago

Miss Manners: They wore white gowns to my wedding, and people were talking

A mean-spirited prank gone wrong? Regardless, it does not bode well for your future relationship with them.
Relationships
London politics
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

Queen Camilla's sister reportedly won't curtsy to her despite royal status: 'Finds it impossible'

Annabel Elliot, sister of Queen Camilla, struggles to curtsy to her sister despite royal customs.
fromNew York Post
3 months ago

Dear Abby: I want my fat son-in-law to stop sitting in my chairs

It is important to approach sensitive topics about health and mobility with empathy and clear communication.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 months ago

Miss Manners: I got in a cupholder argument with another concertgoer. Which of us was right?

"It's the one to your right, just as at the table."
Mental health
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