"Some kidney donors might welcome knowing who they're giving it to. That's part of what they're looking for. But I wanted to be anonymous. I wanted it to be a freely given gift with no expectation of a thank you."
"I was indulging myself in this anxiety and fear and self-pity. It was a moment where I felt like I had to grow up a bit and be a bigger person."
"My surgeon said, It's not every day that you choose to save someone's life, and that's what you're doing today. I started sobbing."
"Waking up from surgery was such a crazy experience. It's not like I was asleep. When I'm asleep, I wake up knowing that time has passed."
Kidney donation involves complex emotions, with some donors preferring anonymity. Anticipating surgery can generate anxiety, as seen during pre-op moments filled with self-doubt. Surgeons affirm the significance of the donor's choice to save a life, which can trigger strong emotional responses. Recovery differs for each individual, with some finding comfort in the hospital environment post-surgery. The experience of waking from anesthesia can feel surreal and timeless, adding to the complexity of the emotional journey.
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