When the Last Embryo Isn't Yours to Carry
Briefly

Mira and Steve's fertility treatment involved surrogacy, leading to unexpected grief for Mira. It was her last embryo, marking a painful realization that she would never carry a child. In therapy, she had come to terms with not experiencing pregnancy, but the reality of surrendering her last chance caught her off guard. The emotional complexities of surrogacy also included financial considerations and legal agreements, but the emotional impact of loss and relinquishment of personal fantasies proved most challenging for Mira's journey towards motherhood.
Mira recognized that despite her choice of surrogacy, she was confronted with the reality of never carrying a pregnancy herself, leading to profound grief.
The emotional complexity of surrogacy was magnified for Mira when she realized it was her last embryo, shattering her private fantasies of motherhood.
Loss in the surrogacy journey includes not just the absence of a pregnancy, but the surrender to a reality that feels uncomfortable and painful.
Mira felt 'stupid' for wanting a piece of the experience for herself, highlighting the personal struggles faced alongside the surrogacy process.
Read at Psychology Today
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