Mandy Davis initially aimed to assist a friend facing job loss by paying his rent, but encountered emotional and financial manipulation that escalated to severe distress. Over time, his controlling behavior and derogatory remarks left her feeling isolated, leading to significant monetary loss and mental health struggles. After the relationship ended, she recognized her experience as mate crime, highlighting the potential for anyone to be victimized by someone they believe to be a friend. This manipulation is easier today due to the rise of online relationships and friendships.
I acted under duress I was put under enormous pressure and my mental ill-health was exploited. I have lost enormous amounts of money, she says.
Davis now realizes, after help from friends and charities, that she was the victim of mate crime, loosely defined as exploitation, abuse, or theft involving someone who claims to be a friend.
He told me I'd made a binding promise to support him, and started guilt-tripping me since he would be homeless... and also made clear he thought I didn't give him enough money.
It can happen to anyone, say experts, and has become easier in recent years with the development of online friendships and relationships.
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