The article explores the complex dynamics between adult children and their emotionally abusive parents, emphasizing that many adult children experience ongoing harm that undermines their self-worth. Despite recognizing the relationship's toxicity, they may feel compelled to maintain contact due to an innate craving for love and acceptance. Factors such as the desire for approval and hope for parental change play significant roles in their decision to stay connected. This enduring attachment can stem from biological instincts, as well as the occasional kindness shown by their parents, reinforcing the cycle of emotional dependency.
This connection is biological; your survival depends on it. Even if your parents didn't provide consistent safety or nurturing, the need for their acceptance and approval remains strong.
Many of us cling to the belief that our parents will change...the hope that your parents might change or improve their behavior over time can be a powerful motivator to stay connected.
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