"It's absolutely the worst feeling to have a smaller family than the one you wanted because you waited for 'X' to happen. Wanting all the dominoes to be perfectly set is a nice goal, but it's banking on a future that may never happen."
"You either have energy with little kids or you have money with little kids. Unless you're lucky, you rarely have both energy and money."
"There's no perfect time to have a baby, but I also believe there's no perfect way to give advice about parenting decisions, because parenting is different for everyone."
Having a smaller family than desired can stem from waiting for ideal circumstances that may never materialize. Life's unpredictability means that factors like fertility issues and job stability can disrupt plans. Many parents feel they either have energy or financial resources for raising children, but rarely both. The notion of a perfect time to have a baby is a myth, as parenting experiences vary greatly based on individual circumstances, including personality, support systems, and financial stability.
Read at Slate Magazine
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