"People Will Call Me A Monster. I Don't Care": People Are Getting Brutally Honest About Whether Or Not They Regret Their Decision To Have (Or Not Have) Children
The decision to have or not have children can drastically alter life paths, deeply influencing personal happiness and societal pressures.
There are contrasting perspectives on parenthood, with some finding fulfillment and others feeling regret or relief in choosing not to have kids.
I'm 49 and don't want kids. I mostly date older women because of my choice.
Brian Gross finds it easier to date older women as it reduces pressure regarding discussions about children.
Reframing the Parent and Non-Parent Divide
The gulf between parents and non-parents stems from differing life focuses and duties, shaping their perspectives.
Childless adults provide unique insights, highlighting shared experiences between non-parents and aging parents.
My son is an only child. I was too tired to have another baby.
As a single mom, the author grappled with the decision to have another child due to age gaps, exhaustion from parenting, and the desire to not start over.
I had one more baby when I turned 40. It was the best decision.
Having another baby at 40 was a fulfilling choice despite societal judgment, prompting reevaluation of priorities and family dynamics.
After having 2 kids, I realized I wanted more. I put my career on hold to be a present mom.
After becoming a mother, the author unexpectedly shifted priorities and redefined personal fulfillment beyond career aspirations.
"People Will Call Me A Monster. I Don't Care": People Are Getting Brutally Honest About Whether Or Not They Regret Their Decision To Have (Or Not Have) Children
The decision to have or not have children can drastically alter life paths, deeply influencing personal happiness and societal pressures.
There are contrasting perspectives on parenthood, with some finding fulfillment and others feeling regret or relief in choosing not to have kids.
I'm 49 and don't want kids. I mostly date older women because of my choice.
Brian Gross finds it easier to date older women as it reduces pressure regarding discussions about children.
Reframing the Parent and Non-Parent Divide
The gulf between parents and non-parents stems from differing life focuses and duties, shaping their perspectives.
Childless adults provide unique insights, highlighting shared experiences between non-parents and aging parents.
My son is an only child. I was too tired to have another baby.
As a single mom, the author grappled with the decision to have another child due to age gaps, exhaustion from parenting, and the desire to not start over.
I had one more baby when I turned 40. It was the best decision.
Having another baby at 40 was a fulfilling choice despite societal judgment, prompting reevaluation of priorities and family dynamics.
After having 2 kids, I realized I wanted more. I put my career on hold to be a present mom.
After becoming a mother, the author unexpectedly shifted priorities and redefined personal fulfillment beyond career aspirations.
I'm in my late 60s, and I'm single with no kids. I have grief about not being a grandma.
The author reflects on a fulfilling life journey while grappling with the unfulfilled desire for motherhood and family due to societal and personal constraints.
Ireland's retiring TDs on the reality of the job: 'Nobody will know me, and that will be weird... I wonder, psychologically how that will feel?'
Brendan Griffin leaves national politics after 13 years, underscoring the conflict between public service and the allure of a normal life.
I'm in my late 60s, and I'm single with no kids. I have grief about not being a grandma.
The author reflects on a fulfilling life journey while grappling with the unfulfilled desire for motherhood and family due to societal and personal constraints.
Ireland's retiring TDs on the reality of the job: 'Nobody will know me, and that will be weird... I wonder, psychologically how that will feel?'
Brendan Griffin leaves national politics after 13 years, underscoring the conflict between public service and the allure of a normal life.
We retired early and started traveling the world. We're not planning to leave money for our 6 kids.
The couple chose early retirement and travel over leaving an inheritance for their six children, prioritizing experiences over traditional financial legacies.
Grey nomads all say the same thing to young traveller as caravanning trend 'surges'
Older Australians often express regret about not traveling earlier, motivating younger travelers to pursue a nomadic lifestyle.
We retired early and started traveling the world. We're not planning to leave money for our 6 kids.
The couple chose early retirement and travel over leaving an inheritance for their six children, prioritizing experiences over traditional financial legacies.
Grey nomads all say the same thing to young traveller as caravanning trend 'surges'
Older Australians often express regret about not traveling earlier, motivating younger travelers to pursue a nomadic lifestyle.
I was pregnant and stressed about being a single mom. Then, a friend changed my perspective, and we ended up co-parenting together.
Monique Doughty's journey illustrates the transformative impact of single motherhood and finding happiness outside societal expectations.
Comfort Has a Cost, and Its Currency is Regret | HackerNoon
Choices made for comfort can lead to a life of regret, undermining dreams and fulfillment.
A moment that changed me: I forgot about love then found the man of my dreams
Personal growth often follows heartbreak, leading to unexpected new opportunities in life.
Focus on self-discovery can be more productive than dwelling on lost relationships.
Harriette Cole: I have a reason for staying single but my parents don't get it
Prioritizing personal growth and interests over traditional marriage is a valid choice, even if it causes tension with family expectations.
I broke away from my traditional Amish community. Here's what grabbed me most in the modern world - and what I miss.
Daniel Beiler shares his journey from an Amish upbringing to embracing a bigger world while reflecting on the complexities of community and personal aspirations.
A Hollywood Actress Finds a Farm, and Her Leading Man, in the Midwest
Torrey DeVitto traded Hollywood glamour for Michigan tranquility, emphasizing the importance of home and stability in her life.
I was pregnant and stressed about being a single mom. Then, a friend changed my perspective, and we ended up co-parenting together.
Monique Doughty's journey illustrates the transformative impact of single motherhood and finding happiness outside societal expectations.
Comfort Has a Cost, and Its Currency is Regret | HackerNoon
Choices made for comfort can lead to a life of regret, undermining dreams and fulfillment.
A moment that changed me: I forgot about love then found the man of my dreams
Personal growth often follows heartbreak, leading to unexpected new opportunities in life.
Focus on self-discovery can be more productive than dwelling on lost relationships.
Harriette Cole: I have a reason for staying single but my parents don't get it
Prioritizing personal growth and interests over traditional marriage is a valid choice, even if it causes tension with family expectations.
I broke away from my traditional Amish community. Here's what grabbed me most in the modern world - and what I miss.
Daniel Beiler shares his journey from an Amish upbringing to embracing a bigger world while reflecting on the complexities of community and personal aspirations.
A Hollywood Actress Finds a Farm, and Her Leading Man, in the Midwest
Torrey DeVitto traded Hollywood glamour for Michigan tranquility, emphasizing the importance of home and stability in her life.
Help! My Ex Is Dying. I Want to Take Care of Her During Her Final Days. My Fiancee Says Absolutely Not.
The author wishes to support their ex-girlfriend Sasha, who is battling cancer, by moving back to help her during this difficult time.
After a breakup in her 30s, a therapist stressed about when she'd start a family. She set a deadline for kids - and stuck to it.
Beth Gulotta's journey illustrates the emotional struggle and societal pressures women face about family planning, particularly regarding relationships and fertility timelines.
My wife and I knew from our first date that we didn't want kids. We've been together for 17 years and lost friends because of our choice.
Matthew and Orna found fulfillment and purpose in their child-free lifestyle, emphasizing personal growth and helping others.
Despite societal pressures and losing friends, the couple remains happy and committed to their choice of not having children.
Help! My Ex Is Dying. I Want to Take Care of Her During Her Final Days. My Fiancee Says Absolutely Not.
The author wishes to support their ex-girlfriend Sasha, who is battling cancer, by moving back to help her during this difficult time.
After a breakup in her 30s, a therapist stressed about when she'd start a family. She set a deadline for kids - and stuck to it.
Beth Gulotta's journey illustrates the emotional struggle and societal pressures women face about family planning, particularly regarding relationships and fertility timelines.
My wife and I knew from our first date that we didn't want kids. We've been together for 17 years and lost friends because of our choice.
Matthew and Orna found fulfillment and purpose in their child-free lifestyle, emphasizing personal growth and helping others.
Despite societal pressures and losing friends, the couple remains happy and committed to their choice of not having children.
I waited 5 years after undergrad to enroll in graduate school. Waiting made me a better student.
Waiting to attend graduate school allowed for personal growth and improved academic skills, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling graduate experience.
Assist Me In Designing a Board Game - Part 3 | HackerNoon
The game design aims to teach happiness metrics through life choices in an engaging and educational format.
I waited 5 years after undergrad to enroll in graduate school. Waiting made me a better student.
Waiting to attend graduate school allowed for personal growth and improved academic skills, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling graduate experience.
Assist Me In Designing a Board Game - Part 3 | HackerNoon
The game design aims to teach happiness metrics through life choices in an engaging and educational format.
19-year-old woman killed in NYC moped crash sought to live in the moment: twin sister
Giselle Flores embraced life fully, highlighting the importance of seizing the moment, even in the face of tragic consequences.
Opinion | That's What I Would Have Liked, to Live in a Wild Sea'
Carmen's story challenges the morality of euthanasia choices for the elderly who feel ready to die but may not have terminal illnesses.
I'm a millennial mom of 3, and I rely on my mom's financial assistance
The article discusses the financial and emotional struggles of a millennial mom relying on her mother for support.
Life-Changing Decisions You'll Make in Your Thirties
Don't let societal pressures dictate your decisions in your thirties; options and opportunities persist regardless of age.
"Retired Without Kids Is The Sh*t" - Childfree People Over 40 Are Sharing What Their Lives Are Really Like, And It Proves There's No Foolproof Path To Happiness
Not having children can bring personal freedom, happiness, and fulfillment for some individuals over 40.