"When I was 14, my parents kicked me out because I was doing drugs and getting rides with random dudes. My uncle found me a couple of days later, having driven around town constantly looking for me the moment he heard about what had happened. He was a total wild man, but he put a roof over my head when nobody else would, gave me unconditional love, and helped me find my way."
"When he died, he left a void in my life. He also left me the house I grew up in, a large amount of money, and a successful business. Suddenly, my parents and my brothers, whom I've not spoken to in nearly two decades, are "reaching out." It's heartbreaking because I've always wanted my family back, but I am not stupid enough to believe that they have any interest in me."
A person was kicked out at 14 for drug use and risky behavior. An uncle found them, provided housing, unconditional love, and financial support for college. The uncle's death left a house, money, and a business to the person. Estranged parents and brothers reappeared after nearly two decades, prompting hope and skepticism. The person worries about others' motives and whether reconciliation can occur on their terms. Longing for family is understandable and not foolish. Parental abandonment causes lasting pain regardless of intent. Reconciliation can be pursued with caution, clear boundaries, and realistic expectations.
Read at Slate Magazine
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