The article discusses the societal pressure on individuals, especially women, regarding parenthood. Conversations on Quora reveal mixed feelings about the choice to have or not have children. One parent describes the profound love they have for their child while also expressing feelings of exhaustion and regret, contemplating adoption. Conversely, a non-parent emphasizes that abstaining from parenthood was their best decision, sharing their experience of introversion and prioritizing personal growth and charitable efforts instead. Both perspectives highlight the complexity of parenting decisions against societal norms.
I love my son. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me in many ways. He's made me a more patient, responsible person. I don't believe in heaven, but I would think he was an angel if I did. His smiles and giggles light up my soul. But I have never felt so hopeless, exhausted, and worn down. If I could do it all over again, I really think I would have given him up for adoption.
Choosing not to have kids has been the single best decision of my life. To be fair, it wasn't a 'choice.' I've never wanted kids. I never played with dolls as a child; I only babysat under extreme duress. I only saw negatives, no upsides, to being a parent...I have focused my time and energy on educating myself and building my own business.
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