The article reflects on the experience of parenting three children with varied age gaps. Initially, the author was fulfilled with their first two kids who had a two-year age gap. After six years, the pregnancy of a third child stirred concerns about disrupting the bond between the older siblings. Recalling the chaotic joy of early parenting with infants, the author now faces the challenge of starting anew with a newborn while balancing the independence gained by the older children. Ultimately, the article emphasizes the beauty of sibling relationships, regardless of different stages in life.
My first two children have a two-year age gap, which felt right to me.
I wondered what having another kid would mean for the bond between my older two.
The logistics of our life had become simpler. I could plan trips without concern for accidents if we didn't stop at enough public restrooms.
After all, I hadn't held a newborn since my middle child was one.
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