Many parents use phrases like "We love you, but..." following a child’s misbehavior, believing it reinforces love. However, experts say this conveys a conditional love message, leading children to feel their parents' affection fluctuates based on their actions. This approach can harm children's emotional well-being and cause long-term issues. Instead, fostering a sense of unconditional love by reaffirming love without exceptions is crucial, especially when handling their strong emotions. Experts advocate for using direct affirmations to ensure children feel secure and supported, even in challenging moments.
When children grow up feeling unconditional love from their parents, they are more likely to become mentally and physically healthy adults.
What [parents] are actually accomplishing is they are telling their child that their love is conditional.
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