As Father's Day nears, it is important to recognize that not all parents willingly chose parenthood, influenced often by societal norms. Many individuals, especially in traditional cultures, face pressure to have children, leading to emotional struggles. The concept of parenting driven by expectation rather than intention can create feelings of regret. These feelings are rarely addressed, yet they deeply affect family relationships. Acknowledging such regrets can facilitate healing and strengthen familial bonds, enabling a more sincere approach to parenthood.
"Parenthood is seen as a natural and unquestionable milestone in many traditional societies. In several South Asian, Middle Eastern, and African cultures, having children is not simply encouraged-it is expected."
"I have worked with parents who hoped that 'the next one' would not have a disability and had multiple children. Others admitted, in hushed tones, that they never felt ready to be a mother or father."
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