The article emphasizes the importance of mindful communication around children, highlighting how they internalize their caregivers' judgmental behaviors. TikToker Nick Werber discusses how growing up with a judgmental caregiver instills a fear of being judged in children, affecting their relationships and self-esteem. Many parents may not realize the lasting impact of their words, leading to sensitive children who feel scrutinized. This topic is often overlooked, yet essential for improving family dynamics and fostering healthier environments for kids.
"When you grow up around a caregiver that was constantly judging or complaining about people behind their back but they did it in front of you, you may or may not have thought 'Wow, mom or dad- they're really judgmental.' But what you might have absorbed is the fear that people are judging you behind your back..."
"I share this today not because I think parents should or even could be perfect in every way, but because this is one of those things I think that really does affect sensitive, attuned kids and not enough people talk about this."
#parential-influence #child-development #emotional-intelligence #family-dynamics #psychology-of-parenting
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