Why the Sunday Scaries hit harder when you're a parent
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Why the Sunday Scaries hit harder when you're a parent
"It's Sunday night. Before kids, this was the time to nurse a mimosa hangover and zone out to The Sopranos. Now? It's a very different playbook. Sunday evenings feel less like a gentle exhale from the weekend and more like staging a Broadway play with a cast that hasn't rehearsed and refuses to put on pants. You are simultaneously the chef, chauffeur, hairdresser, homework coach, and emotional support animal."
"The stress creeps up way before the Monday morning alarm. Workweek Ericka already has 15 Google Meets scheduled, but Mom Ericka must also make sure small humans leave the house with a full water bottle, completed homework, and hair appears combed. And unlike our carefree twenties, we can't just order Pad Thai at 10 p.m. and call it dinner for two days."
"Here's the encouraging news: you don't have to live in perpetual scramble mode. Research consistently shows that people who plan and structure their weeks report lower stress and greater well-being. Weekly planning reduces rumination. In a field experiment, people who sketched out their week in advance reported fewer 2 a.m. spirals about forgotten tasks and felt more engaged during the day."
Sunday evenings often transform from restful time into hectic preparation for the week, with parents juggling cooking, school logistics, extracurriculars, and emotional labor. Common worries include forgotten uniforms, snack supplies, project deadlines, and RSVPs. Parental stress begins well before Monday morning as caregivers balance professional meetings and household readiness. Research shows weekly planning reduces rumination and improves daytime engagement; stable home routines support parental mental health during school transitions; and planning contributes to a greater sense of progress, competence, and control. Implementing Sunday systems can cut scramble, lower stress, and make weekdays feel more manageable.
Read at Fast Company
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