"A healthy ego can be described as a feature of the executive function of our brain. This is the part of us that thinks rationally, assesses accurately, acts responsibly, fulfills our life goals, speaks assertively, builds effective relationships, protects the rights of ourselves and others, and has healthy self-esteem. Its favorite sport is creating harmony. Retaliation is the favorite sport of the narcissistic ego. That ego is a mindset we cultivate and empower over the years."
"Egotists are not fun-or safe-to be around because they: Think only of themselves Do whatever promotes their own sense of superiority, benefit, or advancement Feel compelled to be in control Feel justified in acting aggressively or dishonestly to get their own way Feel entitled to be honored by others without having to honor them in return Can't stand being bested or crossed in any way"
The narcissistic ego centers retaliation as a means to regain perceived superiority and power. A healthy ego operates through executive functions that enable rational thought, responsible action, assertive communication, relationship building, rights protection, and healthy self-esteem, fostering harmony. The inflated ego cultivates entitlement, control needs, dishonesty, projection, and an inability to accept criticism or apologize. Such an ego holds grudges, refuses amends, believes others owe it, and seeks triumph via revenge. Persistent retaliatory behavior destroys trust, safety, and mutual respect, preventing relationships from thriving.
Read at Psychology Today
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