The letter addresses a concern about dealing with a high-maintenance family member, specifically the wife of the writer's niece, whose needs often disrupt group activities. The writer seeks strategies to improve their own relationship with her. The advice given encourages looking inward to define personal needs during family gatherings and suggests ways to maintain enjoyment while navigating the wife’s demands. Acknowledging the emotional impact on the niece is also highlighted as a factor that complicates interactions.
"You might take a book from your niece's wife and start to think in advance about what you'll need to enjoy yourself most the next time you're all together."
"Knowing how your niece's wife might react to certain situations, and how you hope those situations will go, can empower you to speak up for what you need, as well."
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