Even if he feels his flirtations are innocuous, when witnessing them you feel less valued. That's a vulnerable space to be in. It's not ridiculous that it's hard to fully articulate, so please be kind to yourself.
Often, it's a warning sign for an unmet emotional or psychological need. Perhaps for you that need is to feel truly seen, appreciated and admired by your partner.
He said he understood the issue when you brought it up, but did he find ways of modifying his behavior or its impact? That's a part of the conversation you should revisit.
If you're not feeling love in the way you want to feel love, it's not conducive to a healthy relationship. Communication about these feelings is essential.
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