The author expresses discomfort with having her husband's late wife's ashes stored in their garage for 23 years. She is supportive of her husband's connection to his first wife but feels that the presence of the ashes is no longer appropriate. The author suggests putting the ashes into smaller urns for distribution among the children of the deceased. The advice encourages careful consideration of the emotional implications of this request and emphasizes the importance of addressing the necessity of closure and honoring memories.
The urns are a great idea, and a beautiful way to honor her memory for the children.
Maybe it was emotional, maybe it was logistical. Try, as best you can, to separate the remaining ashes from anyone's feelings about you.
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