Dear Abby: I was alone in my sister's house and didn't realize I was on camera
Briefly

A 67-year-old man faced conflict with his two sisters after a private conversation about finances was recorded without his consent by his younger sister, Mitzi. The recording led to his older sister, Carolyn, becoming upset with him. This incident arose after the man expressed concern over Mitzi's relationship with her ex-husband, who had a history of abuse. His girlfriend, who supports him after the loss of his wife, also feels uncomfortable with the situation, fearing it may affect her relationship with the sisters. He is contemplating setting boundaries and expectations regarding their future interactions.
The situation escalated when a phone conversation about finances, including a loan to my older sister Carolyn, was leaked without my knowledge. Mitzi recorded the conversation without my consent, and now both sisters are upset with me.
My girlfriend, who has been supportive since my wife's passing, is also concerned about her future relationship with my sisters due to their ongoing anger and mistrust.
It's unfair that I am facing accusations for a conversation that should have remained private and it’s made worse by my sisters’ failure to respect my boundaries.
I suggest establishing clear expectations regarding my relationship with them and how I expect them to treat my girlfriend moving forward.
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