A Dear Abby reader expresses concern over his fiancée's alcohol addiction, which is straining their relationship and causing arguments. He seeks advice on how to help her stop drinking without enabling her behavior. His therapist has recommended couples counseling, but they're on a waiting list. Meanwhile, he is considering Al-Anon for personal support. Dear Abby emphasizes that saving the relationship must involve both partners, and the fiancée must choose between her addiction and the relationship for progress to occur.
Dealing with an angry, manipulative addict can be soul-crushing. Joining that community will give you insight and perspective.
At some point, your fiancée must decide which to choose: her drinking or you. If she can't give up the bottle, you may need to save yourself.
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