Harriette Cole: My roommate jokes about my hobby, and now I'm embarrassed
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Harriette Cole: My roommate jokes about my hobby, and now I'm embarrassed
"At first, I tried to laugh it off and tell myself it's harmless teasing, but it's starting to get under my skin. I look forward to pottery as a way to relax and express myself, and I feel like I shouldn't have to feel embarrassed about something that brings me joy. The tension has started to affect our overall living environment."
"Where are you doing your pottery? This is likely your roommate's problem. Pottery is a messy hobby that generates a lot of dust. It is typically something people do in a studio, garage or other enclosed area that is away from living space. If you have your wheel set up in a common area, your roommate is probably uncomfortable with that, and justifiably so. Find a place in your home that is separate from her even if it is in your personal bedroom."
Pottery is a messy, dust-producing hobby that can make shared living spaces uncomfortable when practiced in common areas. A roommate's jokes and moving of supplies signal discomfort and infringement on personal space. Moving the wheel and materials to a separate area—such as a studio, garage, outdoor space, or a personal bedroom—reduces conflict, though sleeping near clay dust is undesirable. Clear, firm boundaries about where pottery is done and respect for supplies help protect the hobby and household harmony. If relocation within the home is impossible, seek an external studio. Communication should be direct, focused on practical solutions and mutual respect.
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